From the recent article "Can You Love without Attachment?" by Venerable Robina Courtin on this topic:
First of all, we assume that love and attachment mean the same thing. But the Buddhist way of understanding our emotions is that attachment is the neurotic, needy, dissatisfied part of us that yearns for someone out there, believing that when we get him, we’ll be happy. Love, on the other hand, is referring to an altruistic part of our being – a connection with others, wish that they be happy, and delight in their wellbeing. We have both of these, of course, but it’s so hard to see the difference. They’re like milk and water mixed together.
Special guest teacher Ven. Robina is known for her easy to understand and dynamic presentation of Buddhism, understanding our mind and emotions. Spend the evening checking up to see if it's true whether love and attachment are separate, the same, or completely intertwined, and how through understanding this we can improve all our relationships.
For more about Ven. Robina's biography, visit, and sponsorship opportunities, please go to our Visiting Teacher page. Read the full article by visiting the website for Ven. Robina.