Gompa

The tour brings two new Dalai Lama Films across the US and Canada after a successful 36-city tour of UK-Ireland and sold out screenings in 2014!

Los Angeles Film Director Khashyar Darvich's two newest films featuring the Dalai Lama, Dalai Lama Awakening (narrated by Harrison Ford) and Compassion in Action, come to Raleigh for one night only,March 2nd at 6:30pm. Come to Kadampa Center for screenings of both films.

View the trailers for each film:

• Dalai Lama Awakening
• Compassion in Action

Tickets are $10 per person. Cash and major credit card at the door; to avoid the lines, advance online sales at dalai-lama-double-feature.eventbrite.com

SPECIAL UPDATE:

Unfortunately, the director/producer Khashyar Darvich will be unable to attend for live Q&A as he so dearly wished to. His mother is gravely ill, and he had to return to Washington DC to be with her. Because of this, the ticket price is now a suggested donation of $10. Previously purchased tickets will be honored, and refunds to reflect the adjustment will be given on request. 

We hope to see you there!!

Many of us have come across the book Brave Parenting: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide to Raising Emotionally Resilient Children by Krissy Pozatek. The Wisdom Publications website includes copy from the Introduction to the book on their website. We'll use this as a basis of our discussion. To prepare for the discussion, some things to consider: What is something you did not understand? What struck a cord or gave you an "ah ha" moment? What do you already apply in your own life? In what way? What do you want to know more about?

Also, please consider if you'd like to purchase this book and use it as a basis for future discussions and if there is another book you'd like to use or if you have other suggestions for guiding or discussion. What you can expect:

An icebreaker or a little time to get to know other parents
Discussion based on a specific article or topic
Requests for special speakers as we develop specific questions
A group that provides friendships, support, encouragement, ideas, etc.
Connections between parenting goals and Buddhist teachings
Opportunity for everyone to participate

Currently, we do not have childcare available. Babes in arms welcome.

Join us for our celebration of Tibetan New Year (Losar)! 

We will have dancing, music and food! The Snow Lion will put in an appearance, and there will be plenty of family activities for both children and adults in place of the children's program.

There will be no 9 a.m. teaching this Sunday.

Tara is a female Buddha whose qualities include enlightened action and swiftly removing obstacles (Tara's 21 aspects are represented in statues on our altar). Geshe Gelek translated this special practice for us, The Practice of Tara that Fulfills All Wishes, and assures us that this will greatly benefit not just our center and community, but have the best benefit of helping all sentient beings. His teacher, (the Abbot of Sera Je Monastery) Khen Rinpoche Lobsang Delek, also said when he visited in 2011 that we have a special connection to Tara, so doing her practice is incredibly beneficial for our community, harmony working together, and the success of Kadampa Center.

This practice is for all levels of students and is done in English. It begins at 6:00pm with the group setting up an altar of extensive waterbowl and sense offerings. Once that's finished, we say prayers that include the Praises to the 21 Taras, mantras, and the opportunity to do prostrations if desired.

Traditionally the offerings for the sangha and altar are sponsored by Dharma students, especially if they want to dedicate the merit to their loved ones in need of support and prayers. Sponsorship of Tara practice is $150.

Please click here to sponsor Tara practice.

If you'd like to know more about sponsoring a puja, please contact pujas@kadampa-center.org for instructions about making the donation and sending your personal dedication.

Geshe-la is still not back to 100% health, so we are canceling class tonight. With the icy weather, just another reason to add to the decision.

If you have friends in the class, please send them a text to help get the word out - we apologize for the late notice, but wanted to have class if at all possible so waited to make the final call until it was definite what was of most benefit.

Geshe Sangpo and Tibetan dancers doing practice in gompa.

Chenrezig is the Buddha of Compassion, and by doing practices related to Chenrezig we try to develop this perfection of enlightened compassion within ourselves. During this one-day retreat with Geshe Gelek, we'll learn a basic visualization and focus on saying Chenrezig's mantra (the short one is widely known: OM MANI PADME HUM). Also, if you have a prayer wheel, please bring it to use during the practice, since they are traditionally filled with Mani mantras as well. Please also bring a vegetarian potluck dish for lunch - entrees are particularly helpful, and should be brought in a crockpot if hot (we don't have cooking facilities). Bringing a list of ingredients helps people with allergies enjoy, and helps us serve Geshe Gelek and other sangha who have dietary restrictions.

According to Lama Zopa Rinpoche:

Without creating the karma we cannot find success, for example, finding a job may be unbelievable difficult, so even if we make unbelievable effort, we are unable to find success. By practicing Dharma, we are able to purify negative karma and collect extensive merits. So by reciting OM MANI PADME HUM and other methods it becomes so unbelievably easy to have success and all the happiness. By realizing that just by generating compassion, you—the one person—are able to liberate numberless sentient beings from each realm, from the oceans of samsaric suffering and bring them to full enlightenment. This is most amazing, so these are the benefits that we get by reciting this mantra even just one time. Then the particular benefit of this mantra is that we generate great compassion to all sentient beings.

Therefore this is the best thing that we can do for world peace. Reciting these mantras is unbelievably important, it makes our mind more peaceful, more calm and more compassionate to others. Even if we don’t know Buddhist philosophy—the hundreds of volumes of Buddha’s teachings and the 200 volumes of the commentaries of the great highly attained holy beings, the Indian great pandits, as well as the many teachings written by the enlightened Tibetan lamas. So without even learning all of this, just by chanting these mantras, it makes our life so peaceful and we can benefit others so much. Even if we have no intelligence or no understanding of Dharma, we get unbelievable benefits by reciting these mantras. We purify past negative karma, collect extensive merits and our mind becomes more compassionate to others. In this way, so many sentient beings don’t receive harm from us; they receive peace and happiness from us and we go towards enlightenment day-by-day. 

Resources

For the entire teaching on the benefits of prayer wheels and Mani practice, see: http://www.lamayeshe.com/index.php?sect=article&id=772#sthash.AYFlbsC1.dpuf

A limited number of prayer wheels will be available through our bookstore, along with books on Chenrezig practice and prayer wheels. Recommended titles:

Teachings from the Mani Retreat (available as an ebook or free online) by Lama Zopa Rinpoche

Cultivating a Compassionate Heart by Ven. Thubten Chodron

Wheel of Great Compassion by Lorne Ladner

During the brainstorming session for 2015 programs, one idea you came up with was a course or support group focused on parenting. We are excited to announce a Parent Discussion Group that will meet once a month, beginning this month.

The first meeting will be Thursday Jan 22 from 7 - 8:30 pm
We will discuss Pam Cayton's article Parenting as a Path

What you can expect:

• An icebreaker or a little time to get to know other parents
• Discussion based on a specific article or topic
• Requests for special speakers as we develop specific questions
• A group that provides friendships, support, encouragement, ideas, etc.
• Connections between parenting goals and Buddhist teachings
• Opportunity for everyone to participate

Currently, we do not have childcare available. Babes in arms welcome.

Many of us hold anger in our hearts either because we blame others for harming us or ourselves for our mistakes. Learn the Buddhist method of fogriveness through purification. The basis of purification practice is the four opponent powers - regret, reliance, remedy, and resolve. This allows us to see harm done to us by others as the result of our karma, as well as letting go of our own mistakes and reducing or eliminating their harmful effects. Done well, this practice helps eliminate guilt, grudges, anger and frustration.

Geshe Gelek will be teaching a once-a-month class on different types of purification (Confession to the 35 Buddhas with prostrations, Vajrasattva, Dorje Khadro, and purifying broken vows). Learn about the four opponent powers of regret, reliance, remedy, and resolve to admit and let go of our mistakes in a positive way. We can also begin to see the harm of others as purification, and the chance to practice keeping our resolve not to repeat bad behaviors ourselves. Through reliance on the holy beings who represent the perfect qualities we are striving to emulate, we have various ways to remedy the mistakes. Geshe-la will teach on the different methods and rituals so you can find what works best for you.

The classes are on the second Saturday of every month from 9:30am - 12:30pm starting February 14th. The culmination of these classes will be a purification retreat with Geshe Gelek the last weekend of July (24-26) at the lovely Avila retreat center in Durham. More on that later...but save the date!

Want to do some reading to prepare? Some good books include:
Everlasting Rain of Nectar by Geshe Jampa Gyatso
Becoming Vajrasattva by Lama Yeshe
Peacock in the Poison Grove by Geshe Sopa